Finally, Our Day #AmInLoveWithHidayah
Saturday, 8 April 2023 +


Hullo everyoneeeee,

As you can see in the title, yes, I am married now, to my one and only 178 cm boy. Tapi macam biasalah, it takes months for me to update my blog hahaha. Okay straight to the point.

On 24th December 2022, alhamdullilah sekali lafaz kami telah selamat menjadi suami isteri. I love everything about my majlis, exactly like how I wanted it to be. Very intimate, with family and close friends. Peaceful dan lancar, alhamdullilah makanan dan goodies cukup. Alhamdullilah juga tak hujan, sunny and windy all day padahal waktu tu tengah musim hujan. Oh, kami buat majlis nikah dan sanding pada hari yang sama, because I can't afford to micromanage and socialize while in full make-up, and heavy clothes for more than a day. Ini bukan gedik tau, I know myself and terbukti it's hard for me sebab aku demam weh a day before my majlis because of that! Selsema + batuk, hence my face become extra drier (thank you Dr Morita for saving the day) that day dan hidung aku mengelupas due to frequent friction with tissues. Tapi nasib baik dapat bridesmaids yang sangat function ye, sangat membantu, siap beli ubat, ironkan tudung dan prepare everything just so I can get some sleep. 

my beautiful pelamin, very magical i want to cry

loving my final look, the details of the dress, the heels, and the henna perfectly fit me

ibu, the first person who holds my hand in this world, and will forever be

us, forever and always

during reception

So, aku nak list down a few wedding tips that I've learned from my wedding day (yang lain korang boleh baca di website/social media): 

  • buat online excel/spreadsheet, list down things to do, to buy, everything and share it with your partner. always update it! contoh our spreadsheet:-
  • plan everything as early as you can, manicure, padicure, set the date terus.
  • visualize what you want as details as you can, supaya you get what you want.
  • dengar nasihat dan pandangan orang lain especially orang tua, respect their opinion BUT it is not compulsary for you to follow what they said. you know better what you want.
  • pilih bridesmaid yang ringan tulang dan proactive, it will help you a lot, seriously.
  • sleep early even if it's hard, paksa diri and it will be better if pengantin tak tidur di rumah (kalau majlis di rumah) or you won't thinking apa lagi nak buat and can't stop doing works.
  • rajin bertanya pada wedding planner, MUA, they know a lot and you may get unreveal tips.
  • invest in your photographer/videographer. berbaloi to keep your wedding day moments.
  • branded clothing doesn't make you look beautiful if the style, material doesn't fit you. ingat tu, prioritize looks and quality > brand name.
  • nak jimat? we don't hire DJ, we make Spotify playlist instead and paid our experienced friends to be emcee (boleh nego kalau dengan kawan).
  • nak jimat lagi? buat hidden hantaran, letak gula dan tepung. do not tell a soul except your partner dan yang buat hantaran tu of course haha. benda tu semua boleh claim kat husband lepas kahwin.
  • jadi bijak, turn your mas kahwin/hantaran into investment. instead of minta duit banyak, I asked for dinar for my mas kahwin hehe.
  • ini jarang orang buat- sediakan flow majlis for your families and friends. kadang bila mereka tak tahu the flow, benda ni boleh melengahkan majlis. contoh, nak ambil gambar family, time tu lah makcik ni pergi toilet, pakcik tu tengah merokok kat luar, sedara ni tengah nap, kan susah. here's mine for example:
contoh tentatif

Hmmm as of now, mungkin itu je. You can add more tips in the comment. Mungkin boleh membantu siapa yang baca this post. Dan sampai sini je kot aku mampu tulis, nak sambung buat kerja pula hehehe. Mohon doakan perkahwinan kami dikurniakan sakinah, mawaddah dan warahmah, aminnnn. Thank you for reading, till next time!

Video kahwin kami boleh tengok kat sini.



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We Are Engaged!
Wednesday, 25 May 2022 +


Was this a dream? Am I really someone's fiancee now? 

I still clearly remember on 10th of October 2021, I was waiting for Iqram to come home and I was a bit mad at him sebab he didn't update me that much that day. Then he called, I was being so cold at him, merajuklah konon ahahaha when suddenly he asked me, 

"You free tak on 26th December? Mama nak masuk meminang." 

Terdiam, terkejut. Aku salah dengar ke? Is that his new joke or a new way untuk pujuk? Because if yes, ehem it's working sir! When suddenly Iqram tanya lagi, "You okay tak tu?". Hahahahaha obviously no! So I asked him was he sure mama sebut meminang? Atau nak bercuti di Melaka je and meet my family? He just laughed and I was still in shock. After several more questions for confirmation, baru aku boleh terima kenyataan tu. I wanted to scream "Yes!" tapi masa tu kan still merajuk so I throw a pillow at my roommate instead and answered his question dengan bertenang....."Yes, sure I free je." Hahahahaha

And that's that. Throughout those 2 months of preparation, aku masih rasa benda tu macam mimpi. To be honest, I didn't plan to get married that early since I am still doing my PhD... I didn't even thought someone could love me that much and want me to be his wife. Iqram was so nice and soft-spoken and I am... emm you know, over-sensitive, emotionally unstable. Hahahaha but above all that, I was content and happy. Despite several ujian after bertunang, Iqram sentiasa reminds me that we can go through this together and he'll never give up. Well, fast forward, lagi few months je till our wedding. 


It wasn't easy but if I had to go through all those ujian and obstacles again, I will as long as I am with him. Gituuuu, but I am serious. Ehek. Ok cukuplah itu je, nanti rajin aku update lagi k. Doakan urusan kami dipermudahkan dan semoga kami sentiasa murah rezeki, thank you! 



*this post has been in my draft for months, sorry saya baru ada masa to edit and post it.





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Something New
Thursday, 17 June 2021 +

Assalamualaikum dan salam PKP yang tak berpenghujung.

Hari ni rasa nak bercerita pasal benda yang baru dan agak unexpected yang I did in this year...so far. Ayuh.
Before this, I've always wanted to record and show people a proper video of our fieldworks. Since I get the privilege to work in the forest and nature environments, including forest reserves that most people don't have access to. I also managed to see wildlife right in front of my eyes (mostly just their foot prints hahaha) and mesmerizing scenery (like the photo I took below in Perlis), soooooo I wanted to share the journey with you guys so bad! But, I'm too lazy and I don't have proper equipment to record (alasan but true though). Selain tu, saya juga sangat awkward dan kaku bila di depan camera. I guess that was the main reason why I refused to record a video dengan ML Studios bila Matluthfi call aku waktu kat Cheras dulu. Maka, niat itu terkubur for a long time until now.

Taken on 27th June 2019, in Wang Kelian, Perlis during my internship at PERHILITAN

But, a month before puasa this year, I feel the urge to make a Youtube channel, tiberrr (i don't even know why). Iqram is the first person yang I told about this and dia punyalah semangat macam dia pulak yang nak buat video hahaha. Siap cakap kalau I made one, dia pun akan cuba buat a channel (talking about IT/triathlon or about cycling in general). My housemate pulak obviously paksa aku buat, dari dulu lagi hahaha. Suprisingly, I received huge supports and tips from my friends termasuklah rakan online saya (thank you miharu!). So, makin berkobarlah semangat saya and I even bought a video editor software (dengan bantuan Iqram ihik), gituuuuu. Nak dijadikan cerita, few days after that we have two days fieldwork di Hutan Taman Negeri Ayer Hitam Utara. Maka, disitulah saya decide untuk cuba record. With the help from people around me, mostly from my teammates- Jimi bagi pinjam dslr dan tolong record during fieldworks, Syu bagi pinjam iPhone 11 dia for me to record juga any footage dan Encik Hakim pun dengan baik hatinya share his GoPro footage for my video, Asmira dan Iqram tolong komen editing saya dan fikir background songs wahahaha and few days of thinking the name of the channel, maka terhasillah my Youtube channel dan the first fieldwork video (klik sini untuk ke Youtube channel saya).

Something that is totally new to me, if you never try, you'll never know.

Screenshot of some supports I received (bukan angkat bakul sendiri k). Encik Hakim siap tolong share video sebab dia kata kesian tengok viewer 99 je and 24 hours after dia share, viewer terus naik ke 300+, thank you!

The first video wasn't as good as I expected. Dengan lab bisingnya dan unclear voice but hey, you gotta start somewhere and be better along the way tu kan? So takpelah, tu kiranya my baby step to get familiar with the process. After that, I was planning to record my second video two weeks after the first video (before raya) tapi sadly, we have to go back to our hometown sebab lockdown. Bukan sedih balik hometown tapi sedih sebab I won't have a proper camera for recording since back camera of my iphone rosak dan I was too busy preparing for my viva and all. Inshallah I'll come back soon with new content!!!! Sementara tu boleh tengok my first video dulu dan komen any improvements I can make, yang membina tau! Thank you!


Sekian, bebelan saya untuk hari ini hihi. Jangan lupa subscribe dan like video saya tau! Till we meet again! <3

p/s: jangan lupa subscribe youtube kawan-kawan saya juga (just click their names with red font tu)





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